Mother frequently referred to an inevitable event as an ‘appointment in Samarra.’ To her, it was much more than simply the intersection of life and death – it was her belief that life had unavoidable events. Mom faced her appointment in Samarra with courage and grace. She did not run from it, and although she did not welcome it, she knew what she wanted. I will miss her resilience, grace under fire and most of all, what she added to our lives that no one else could have done. God speed mom.
Appointment in Samarra….as retold by W. Somerset Maugham (1933)
The speaker is Death…”There was a merchant in Bagdad who sent his servant to market to buy provisions and in a little while the servant came back, white and trembling, and said, Master, just now when I was in the marketplace I was jostled by a woman in the crowd and when I turned I saw it was Death that jostled me. She looked at me and made a threatening gesture, now, lend me your horse, and I will ride away from this city and avoid my fate. I will go to Samarra and there Death will not find me. The merchant lent him his horse, and the servant mounted it, and he dug his spurs in its flanks and as fast as the horse could gallop he went. Then the merchant went down to the marketplace and he saw me standing in the crowd and he came to me and said, Why did you make a threating gesture to my servant when you saw him this morning? That was not a threatening gesture, I said, it was only a start of surprise. I was astonished to see him in Bagdad, for I had an appointment with him tonight in Samarra.”